2014

empowerer

In times of crisis, there is often an opportunity for growth and transformation, but only if one is willing to put in effort, determination, and open-mindedness. When I returned to Milan, I carried with me a wealth of experiences. However, I realized that standard professional definitions were already very limited compared to the skills I had acquired. Going beyond the average level complicates definitions…

I still didn’t fully understand the path I had taken, but I realized that I needed to showcase my true abilities. Returning home provided a familiar environment to organize the new knowledge. During this period, I wrote my first novel and developed the first form of Optima Vita 360*.

As a Coach, I created a semi-structured, automated, and quantitative system, drastically reducing therapy time. On average, two years in about ten sessions… Its initial form was aimed at entrepreneurs, active public figures, and ambitious individuals, but with Optima Vita 360*, I realized its potential to revolutionize psychological therapy for everyone.

However, I interrupted a large part of my therapeutic life to dedicate myself to an ambitious renovation project with the man that would later become my husband, of a beautiful house on Lake Como. Transitioning from a psychological environment to one of renovation, and the months invested in this, allowed me to acquire an important piece of the universal psychology puzzle I had been seeking: interconnections. I needed to focus on renovating not only the mind, but the entire Life of the client and far beyond what systemic psychology, which I loved so much, allows.

I took this new direction, renovating the data analysis system of Optima Vita. It took me weeks, but in the end, I achieved the goal of virtuously breaking one of the biggest taboos and limits of psychology: a deep and rapid change without working on the client’s history. This approach avoids problems related to memory, emotional reorganization, cognitive dissonance, overinterpretation, without losing the classic moments of a session, which represents a great breakthrough for a psychologist compared to mainstream psychology.

The resistance of some colleagues and even plagiarism did not stop the progress, but it forced me to keep all public information protected until now, limiting promotion solely through word of mouth. I publicly left hermetic crumbs for a select few, but I understood that until I found a way to protect a very good product, I could lose it in an instant at the hands of unscrupulous professionals and colleagues accustomed to using vulgarization as a promotional tool.

The second version of Optima Vita 360* broke a second psychological taboo: with that tool I was able to help friends and family without compromising therapeutic effectiveness, or worse, the personal relationship. The dream of any psychologist and at the same time the hellish nightmare of anyone who has attempted it solely with psychology.

Little by little… I made it.

Today, almost ten years later, I am writing the first official manual of Optima Vita 360*, so today I can publicly speak about this experience, constitutive of a new professional level at that time.

By breaking the boundaries of psychology, I managed to bring the essence of the «speech of the soul» into the real world, and the incredible results I could achieve in the therapeutic field were just the beginning…

A couple of years later, Optima Vita 360* opened the doors to that unattainable immensity that I saw as a twenty-something anonymous psychologist in my early forays into multinationals and elite circles… My life adventure continued…